Tuesday, May 30, 2006
nong nong distance love affair...
lss..
nong nong distance love affair..
i keep humming that...weird. neways, as an apparently general rule, long distance relationship don't work out but with a few exceptions.
someone told me (that is before his break up) long distance relationships will only work with maturity. but then, if he considers himself rather mature on it then I guess long distance relationship doesn't necessarily work with maturity.
sabi pa nga nila, there is no one-way street. Both parties must do something else, if the other one is left exerting effort eventually the determination fades, and we all know it ends there maybe unless if they meet again and the "fire" is rekindled.
somehow, i think love alone won't work for long distance relationships and so is maturity alone. I don't know what exactly so I'll just say that those whose relationships apparently worked out are the lucky ones.
i do not know what romantic love really is and so is the certainty that those who engage in a relationship are in love (both ways). i know quite a number who just go for it because it is fun, because they don't want to be alone, because they like each other simply.
as for me. I love Rohit. but... is love what i really feel? at the moment I label that feeling as love because I know that feeling is different from mere liking/infatuation. I can say this because I have liked many guys before but this one is different.
so you may ask, what is the point of me injecting my relationship with Rohit to this nong nong distance love affair? well... he is bonded for 6 years in Singapore while I have the world! my loved ones have asked where do I want to work after graduation, now I directly answer: Singapore, although before I simply don't know... the main reason? I want to stay with him... however, I do feel that Im not certain about this. Opportunities do lurk somewhere beneath the sky, it can be anywhere, it can be 17 hours plane ride from singapore which costs $$$$$... I mean considering the worst, I will be in this nong nong distance relationship--> this gives an impression that you know... it might not work out. My mom does say that there are lots of other guys in the world who would run after me (hehe...well she said that apparently but it is no big deal. I don't get a big head out of it, my head is already generally bigger (physically) so I do not need anything more--> since it already gives me this weird paranoia of brain cancer =P.lol)jowk... but really I shall wash my hands clean, I'm not that "wow" of a girl to be chased by men... i so hope!!! aren't my clothes a bit guyish enough to be unattractive? =P... if crowds of men chase me...they have a lousy taste...except for my boy-boy!!! so enough of that self-centeredness... back on track (errr.. still memememe though). basically it is my general notion that nong distance relationships don't work makes me reconsider working in singapore... we will see! no one can be pretty certain about the future neways. Who knows Orlando Bloom might come to Singapore for me, in his Legolas form =P and become my next bf =P...lol... lame...lame lame lame.
My ate is in Japan currently, after 8 years with her bf, she left Philippines... I only pray that their relationship would work out because her bf is the one my late father approved of for her, the one we all approved of for her. I am pretty much concerned about it... really. Else, the prospect of me becoming a maid of honor will get slim =(... hehe... but really... I just want the two of them to end up together... that's all...
nong nong distance love affair... owohooh!
Telephone (long long distance love affair)
by Sheena Easton
I've been away from you for far too long
Too much chances make my heart go frantic
I wanna tell you what's been goin' on,
operator give me Trans Atlantic
I sit alone as the night goes by
Stare at the phone and wait for your reply
CHORUS:
Long long distance love affair, I can't find you anywhere
I call you on the telefone, but you're never home
I gotta get a message to you, I wanna tell you what I'm going through
What in the world's comin' over you
How come you're acting like a total stranger
I try to reach you but I can't get through
I got this feeling that my heart's in danger
I got your letter it was perfectly clear
Havin' a ball, and wishin' you are here
CHORUS
Premonition is a funny thing, a familiar kind of pain and easy
Like knowin' when the phone is gonna ring
Too many times and it'll drive you crazy
I hear your echo in the longer hall
Call out your name, but no-one's there at all
Long long distance love affair, I can't find you anywhere
I call you on the telefone, but you're never home
(repeats out) ¶ 8:07 PM
nong nong distance love affair..
i keep humming that...weird. neways, as an apparently general rule, long distance relationship don't work out but with a few exceptions.
someone told me (that is before his break up) long distance relationships will only work with maturity. but then, if he considers himself rather mature on it then I guess long distance relationship doesn't necessarily work with maturity.
sabi pa nga nila, there is no one-way street. Both parties must do something else, if the other one is left exerting effort eventually the determination fades, and we all know it ends there maybe unless if they meet again and the "fire" is rekindled.
somehow, i think love alone won't work for long distance relationships and so is maturity alone. I don't know what exactly so I'll just say that those whose relationships apparently worked out are the lucky ones.
i do not know what romantic love really is and so is the certainty that those who engage in a relationship are in love (both ways). i know quite a number who just go for it because it is fun, because they don't want to be alone, because they like each other simply.
as for me. I love Rohit. but... is love what i really feel? at the moment I label that feeling as love because I know that feeling is different from mere liking/infatuation. I can say this because I have liked many guys before but this one is different.
so you may ask, what is the point of me injecting my relationship with Rohit to this nong nong distance love affair? well... he is bonded for 6 years in Singapore while I have the world! my loved ones have asked where do I want to work after graduation, now I directly answer: Singapore, although before I simply don't know... the main reason? I want to stay with him... however, I do feel that Im not certain about this. Opportunities do lurk somewhere beneath the sky, it can be anywhere, it can be 17 hours plane ride from singapore which costs $$$$$... I mean considering the worst, I will be in this nong nong distance relationship--> this gives an impression that you know... it might not work out. My mom does say that there are lots of other guys in the world who would run after me (hehe...well she said that apparently but it is no big deal. I don't get a big head out of it, my head is already generally bigger (physically) so I do not need anything more--> since it already gives me this weird paranoia of brain cancer =P.lol)jowk... but really I shall wash my hands clean, I'm not that "wow" of a girl to be chased by men... i so hope!!! aren't my clothes a bit guyish enough to be unattractive? =P... if crowds of men chase me...they have a lousy taste...except for my boy-boy!!! so enough of that self-centeredness... back on track (errr.. still memememe though). basically it is my general notion that nong distance relationships don't work makes me reconsider working in singapore... we will see! no one can be pretty certain about the future neways. Who knows Orlando Bloom might come to Singapore for me, in his Legolas form =P and become my next bf =P...lol... lame...lame lame lame.
My ate is in Japan currently, after 8 years with her bf, she left Philippines... I only pray that their relationship would work out because her bf is the one my late father approved of for her, the one we all approved of for her. I am pretty much concerned about it... really. Else, the prospect of me becoming a maid of honor will get slim =(... hehe... but really... I just want the two of them to end up together... that's all...
nong nong distance love affair... owohooh!
Telephone (long long distance love affair)
by Sheena Easton
I've been away from you for far too long
Too much chances make my heart go frantic
I wanna tell you what's been goin' on,
operator give me Trans Atlantic
I sit alone as the night goes by
Stare at the phone and wait for your reply
CHORUS:
Long long distance love affair, I can't find you anywhere
I call you on the telefone, but you're never home
I gotta get a message to you, I wanna tell you what I'm going through
What in the world's comin' over you
How come you're acting like a total stranger
I try to reach you but I can't get through
I got this feeling that my heart's in danger
I got your letter it was perfectly clear
Havin' a ball, and wishin' you are here
CHORUS
Premonition is a funny thing, a familiar kind of pain and easy
Like knowin' when the phone is gonna ring
Too many times and it'll drive you crazy
I hear your echo in the longer hall
Call out your name, but no-one's there at all
Long long distance love affair, I can't find you anywhere
I call you on the telefone, but you're never home
(repeats out) ¶ 8:07 PM
